Mythbusters: The Aging Myth That’s Costing Families Everything

Most people think aging has only two paths: either you live independently until you peacefully pass, or you struggle and move to a nursing home. The truth is far more complex—and far more hopeful.

In this episode, Brandy and Emilia challenge the binary thinking that holds families back from making smart, supportive choices as they age. From assisted living myths and real costs, to downsizing strategies, intergenerational living, and how to make your home truly accessible, they offer practical insights and lived examples to help individuals, caregivers, and professionals rethink what aging can look like.

If you're helping someone age in place, navigating options for your own future, or supporting clients through the aging journey, this conversation will change how you think about aging—forever.

Chapters:

0:00 – Intro & Kids “Watching” a Blank Screen

3:12 – The Aging Myth: All or Nothing Thinking

6:18 – What Is Nursing Home Level Care?

9:48 – Assisted Living Costs & Real Limitations

13:08 – Downsizing as a Strategy

16:20 – Senior Apartments: What to Look For

22:12 – Making Your Current Home Accessible

27:50 – Help at Home: Paid and Community Support

32:05 – Intergenerational Living & Shared Strength

36:55 – Final Thoughts: Plan Ahead, Build Community

Resources:

AskSAMIE – Care Equipment & Home Solutions https://www.asksamie.com/

SeniorAI – The Future of Care Navigation https://seniorai.app/

Care Lab Podcast Website – https://www.carelabpodcast.com/

AARP HomeFit Guide – https://www.aarp.org/livable-communities/housing/info-2020/homefit-guide.html